2 Peter 1:6 (NKJV) 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness,
Last time we began looking at the third thing we need to add to our faith in order to walk fully in what Peter has revealed to us in 2 Peter 1. We found that we have a need for self-control. While virtue speaks of a pattern of living that will lead us away from sin and compromise and to God and his will, self-control is what will help us deal with the inevitable temptations that come to us as we navigate the world.
This section of scripture is really speaking of accessing the divine nature that is within us because of salvation. I am not “only human.” I am more than that. I am a human being with the divine nature within me. In order to access that nature so that it can work in my outward life I need to receive the promises in the Word of God by faith. I also need to do certain things that God reveals in his Word which will release that power to flow through me. I thank God that I am not limited to my own self-control. That would be a problem for me. Instead, when I choose to exercise what self-control I can, it releases the power of God within to back up my choices.
How do we tap into the fruit of self-control? It is understood that we are flesh and we will stumble at times. But I want to know what I can do in order to mitigate that. I want to know the actions I can take to make my self-control stronger and more able to tap into the power of god within. The Bible has quite a bit to say about this. Ephesians 4;17-19 tell us what weakens our self-control.
Ephesians 4:17-19 (NKJV) 17 This I say, therefore, and testify in the Lord, that you should no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind, 18 having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart; 19 who, being past feeling, have given themselves over to lewdness, to work all uncleanness with greediness.
In these verses we see a progression. The end of this progression is someone who has given themselves over to lewdness with the purpose of working all uncleanness with greediness. That is not where you are and it is not where I am. It is, however, what can happen if we do not deal with certain things. The cause of the progression is set out here. It starts with the futility of the mind.
That does not mean we should not use our minds. It does not mean we should not think or learn. It does mean that when we lean on the mind alone, we will find that it produces futility. The result of that is to be alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance because they have blinded their hearts. Wisdom comes from God. Without it, knowledge and information is of little use. In proverbs 4:19 it says that the way of the wicked is like darkness. They stumble and they do not know why.
Ephesians 4:20-24 (NKJV) 20 But you have not so learned Christ, 21 if indeed you have heard Him and have been taught by Him, as the truth is in Jesus: 22 that you put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts, 23 and be renewed in the spirit of your mind, 24 and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness.
Here Paul gives us the solution. For those of us who are born again there is a different way. We must choose to put off some things and put on others. We must stop doing things the way we used to. We have to recognize that we are not who we were. Again, that is not talking about everything. It is talking about the things related to dealing with temptation. We must recognize that lust is deceitful. I am not just talking about sexual lust. Lust is any strong controlling desire. Anything the flesh wants can be a lust if we let it.
As we put off the old man we must be renewed in the spirit of our mind. In Romans 12 Paul is talking about the same thing when he says we must be transformed by the renewing of our minds. If we want to be able to exercise the power of our will which will access the fruit of temperance, we must learn to think more like God. We have been programed to assume many things that will not help us overcome the temptations of the flesh. As we learn to think more like God, we will see those things as lies. The Word of God has the power to change how we think if we give time to it in study and meditation.
Finally, we must put on the new man. That means we are going to have to start saying no to things that do not agree with God’s Word or his ways. If he says do not do something, we are going to have to say no to that thing even if our flesh wants to say yes. We may not fully understand why we should say no, but to do so just because the Bible says so is the very thing that releases the inner power of temperance.
If we try to put on the new man without the wisdom and power of what the Word of God says, we may know we should try, but it will be law and we will be unsuccessful. If we study and learn what the Bible says while also spending time in the presence of God through prayer, praise and worship, something happens that releases the power of temperance inwardly while strengthening our soul where the will, the source of self-control resides.
Let me close with one more scripture and an insight that will help you.
James 1:12-15 (NKJV) 12 Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. 14 But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. 15 Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death.
This gives us a clear picture of how temptation becomes sin. The temptation itself is not sin. This alone can help you. Just because temptation comes to your mind or your flesh does not mean you have done anything wrong. If you work on cars you get dirty. That is not your fault it is the way it works. If you live in the world temptation will come. Temptation becomes sin when we dwell on it. The more we entertain temptation, the more it conceives something in us that can and usually will turn to some kind of action. There is a key that will release the power of the fruit of temperance. That key is the first thought.
When temptation comes, we must choose to cast down the first thought. If we do not let it dwell in our minds it cannot conceive. Two things we must know in order to do that. Once we take control of the first thought, it may come back. When it does, it is still the first thought. Depending on how much a temptation is attacking a weakness in our flesh, that thought may have to be dealt with many times. Do not let it progress. Take control of it every time.
The second key is this. You will think on something. If you are under temptation you deal with the first tempting thought, but you are going to have to replace it. This is not easy. It is often a real battle. You do not want to think about something else but remember, this is a battle for your peace, your walk of holiness and ultimately your destiny. The most important thing you need to replace the tempting thought with is the Word of God itself. Putting your mind on something else outwardly can help, but the power to live in self-control comes from within. The Word is food for that part of us.
Add to your faith, virtue and knowledge, self-control and you will walk in a new kind of victory. According to James you will receive the crown of life that God has promised. I believe that has an eternal meaning but I also thing it applies to living in the Kingdom of God right here on earth.